We weren’t quite ready to leave Sapa yet!
I had been wanting to join a cooking class for months and finally I found somebody to join me – Rachael from Scotland and I loved being back in the kitchen!
On our last day we got to celebrate the upcoming new year with all the staff and students of Sapa O’Chau…
And then we were off on the train to Yen Bai with Dzung, our Vietnamese colleague from Sapa O’Chau, Li, a former student and Keith, another volunteer from England.
The next five days we got to spend with Dzung’s family who live out in the countryside by a town called Yen Bai which is unknown by tourists to say the least… There are no words to express how thankful we are for this experience… We were welcomed in such a warm and kind way and were able to have this unique experience of sharing their lives a little and celebrating the Vietnamese New Year with them…
Life is so much harder for these people than for us… Our own homes are filled with so much luxury (often very unnecessary…) and comfort… And these people who have so little, and work so much harder than we will ever have to, shared everything with us and gave so much…
Dzung’s parents have a farm and raise and grow most of their food themselves… Since they don’t like using a fridge, they eat mostly fresh meat and vegetables. In the days we were there a pig, some chicken, and a goose were killed and lots of fish caught 🙂 During the nights we often went to bed with the sounds of animals putting us to sleep, and some mornings we were awakened early by the loud squeals of a pig or a chicken being tied up to be killed!
As the New Year’s Festival (which is called Tet here) is the highlight of the year for Vietnamese people, we had lots of big meals with a lot of meat and for lots of them we were joined by brothers and sisters, uncles and aunts or friends…
Tet doesn’t just last a day here, a lot of businesses close down completely for sometimes even two weeks! Everybody goes home to their families and even ancestral spirits are welcomed back into their homes. Altars, laden with offerings, are prepared to ensure good luck in the coming year.
The events of the New Year’s Day are crucial as it is believed they effect the year ahead. People take extra care not to be rude or show anger. The first visitor of the year is chosen with extra care to ensure the year is filled with luck and we felt very honored that Dzung’s parents wanted Finley to take the first steps into their home this year when we came back from seeing the fireworks after midnight! On the first day of the new year it is the day to visit the family from the father’s side so many people came to their house to drink tea and give their greetings. It was amazing to us how short the visits were, but Dzung told us that there are so many people to visit in the first three days of the new year that the visits have to be short!
After lunch it was our time to make some visits! We visited so many cousins, uncles, aunts and grandparents… All welcoming us into their homes with green tea, homemade rice wine and candy…
It was incredible for us to see so many homes, some living in very basic conditions… But all of them willing to give so much, always smiling and so friendly to us… although all we could say in Vietnamese was “Chuc Mung Nam Moi” (Happy New Year)!
We enjoyed riding around on the motorbikes everyday and getting lots of looks from the locals as they don’t have any foreigners visiting their area ever… Everybody seemed to know quite fast that Dzung’s family had some visitors and it was interesting that we also had to go and register with our passports at the police station… The police men came to check on us a few times actually, asking about our jobs and filling out more forms… Or was it just to try more of the family’s homemade rice wine they are famous for? 🙂 One of our highlights was that we even got interviewed by the regional TV station when we were watching the New Year’s Eve performances and fireworks in town…
Thank you for these special memories, dear Dzung and your lovely family…
January 27 – February 1st